After that I decided I didn't want to get to know women first, then I decided to change my appearance so that it didn't look bad. Finally, after I felt sure I was not too bad I tried to upload my photos to social media and tried to contact him again and sure enough he felt strange when I changed my appearance. He said, "Is this you? ... How come you are more handsome than before? ..." I laughed and answered, right that was first. And after that I was invited to meet with him again and I said "I don't think I can do it now, next time" and after that I started chatting again with him. Until finally I decided not to reply to a chat from him again, because I want to reciprocate the treatment that he was not good to me in the past.